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Of Toastmasters & UCAS

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Last weekend, I attended a public speaking seminar organised by Taylor's Rotaract Club. They manage to invite representatives from Toastmasters (including some CEO's and presidents of clubs) to give us a speech. I had to say that they've done a great job for being able to get everything going. Perhaps it would be even better if they had organise the schedule better (many- including the committee members, are late).

On the first day, I was accompanied by my brother. We were divided into groups and were given an intro to public speaking, impromptu speaking, gestures, organising your speech... The scariest thing of the day was that we were required to give a 2-mins speech in front of everyone with half a second of preparation. Mike, the speaker, gave us a topic (mine was "is money important in choosing a career"), and we were to express ourselves right there. Surprisingly, most of them did very well, perfect English, humourous, well-organised... One would have thought they'd prepared them overnight. On the other hand, I sucked despite getting the easiest topic.

At night, Kitloong called and said he wanted to go as well. When I sms-ed the organiser (Ken Sing) on whether he was eligible for a cert, he responded, " well, if u ask me nicely, i might close one eye on it." After one sms filled with nice words... "you have convinced me, i will try to do something." Haha. Well, that night, me, my brother, and him, spent the night brainstorming for the ideas on the speech we were supposed to give for the competition on the next day. (There goes my sleep).

I was surprised to see Kam Hei at that seminar the next day. We were among the first to arrive. I guess the speakers were frustrated to find that the door into the LT room was locked when he arrived with his family, resulting in all of us standing outside, waiting for the organiser; which was why he scolded us once we got in. Throughout that day, I was forced to sit up straight and nod then and again, because due to my sitting position, the speakers all kept looking at me when they speak. Finally, the competition began (Kam Hei had sneaked away just before the competition starts). Some of them came up with very very good speech, even the Toastmasters said if they were to speak in their Toastmasters Club, they would have beaten most of the toastmasters flat. Of course, I would have to say, I was among the bottom, again. The winner of the day was Tong Kezanne, with "How to Die Early". *I was disqualified for not being within the time-limit. * Hahaha.

Anyway, on my way back home, exhausted and thinking about my sweet and soft pillow, my friend sms-ed me and said that the dead-line for UCAS application for Taylor's students(FYI, the application to UK universities) was the coming thursday!! (What?! Just a few days to go, and I didn't even have any idea what I want to study!) So, that few days of mine was spent on going to college, rushing through my home work from school which was getting harder, surfing the net, filling in the form, and dashing to and fro -about 5 times- between my house and Mrs Yuen's tuition center, because I need her help in writing my personal statement, as that is the key to successful application. (Mrs Yuen kept saying that my English has lacken and that I used to write better English than what I had written. Sob Sob.)

I finally managed to pick 6 uni, all of which I decided to apply for accounting and finance, and sent in my form online. Phew, one more thing down. Bad news is, I have a few topics to cram into my head this weekend for my final 4 tests of the year, a badminton date with my friends on saturday, movie in the evening, and Yoga on the next day.

Gosh, there goes my sleep again.

GentinG TriP

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I woke up even before my alarm goes off. I knew, this is going to be a special day. I laid on the bed, tossing around until my boyfriend called. Then I got up and did most of the things gals are "supposed" to do before going out. (Actually, it only involved tying up my hair)

As usual, he arrived a bit late. But i wasn't ready yet. So i took my time and made egg sandwiches, thinking that it wouldn't hurt to let him wait for a while. However, I was shock and embarassed to find out that his parents were both in the car too, waiting for me. Opps.

His parents let us off at the bus stop near his house, and we got on the bus heading for Maluri after snapping a few photos. Using the touch-n-go card, we boarded the STAR Lrt and then at Titiwangsa, we bought the tickets and went onto the Kuala Lumpur-Genting bus, beginning our journey.

It was quite a long and twisting trip. Luckily my boyfriend was smart enough to bring along a MP3, and we spent most of the bumpy ride trying to figure out the lyrics of <只对你有感觉>

无解的眼神心像海底针 光是猜测 我食欲不振 有点烦人 又有点迷人浪漫没天分 反应够迟钝 不够精神 花挑错颜色 但很矛盾喜欢你的笨 微笑再甜再美不是你的都不特别眼泪再苦再咸有你安慰又是晴天 靠的再紧再贴少了拥抱就算太远全世界只对你(你)有感觉玩的 再疯 再野 你瞪一眼 我就收敛 马路 再宽 再远只要你牵 就很安全 [我会又乖 又黏 温柔体贴 绝不敷衍 我只对你有感觉 体贴却粘人爱哭却温顺 有时天真有时很邪恶 对你耍狠就是舍不得即刻吸收养分 让脑袋平衡 要你现身 动作慢吞吞怎么承认我非你不可 微笑再甜再美不是你的都不特别眼泪再苦再咸有你安慰又是晴天 靠的再紧再贴少了拥抱就算太远全世界只对你有感觉 玩的再疯再野你瞪一眼我就收敛马路再宽再远只要你牵就很安全 我会又乖又粘温柔体贴决不敷衍我只对你有感觉.

Actually, we only figured out the chorus part, the rest was copied from the internet. *Guilty.* Upon reaching First World, he brought me to the card counter and apply for a Worldcard. When i asked him, he confessed that he never use the card before. "Well, it feels better to have a card more in the wallet." -.-" Duh?! Anyway, we then went around to find a place to eat.

McD? No, we have that once a week in Cheras, that's more than enough. KFC? Nah... Wat-Dan-Ho? What? All the way to genting for a wat dan ho that cost triple the price in Cheras? Don't think so. We were in front of a restaurant, ( i couldn't remember the name but i think its the one that me, SKy and Yee Rui went at midnight the last time), about to go in, when someone suddenly tapped my back and said "ta kip" (robbing). I turned around and couldn't believe my eyes.

I stared at him for 3 seconds before i came back to my senses. Kam Hei? At Genting? What is he doing there? Then i saw Yvonne, then all the PE6 people appeared in front of me. Wow! Isn't the world a small place? I mean, it's Genting, not Leisure Mall or even Sunway.When one of them suggested to go in to the restaurant, Kit Loong pulled me away. Well, i guess he still doesn't like the idea of me + him+ Kam Hei (+ KH's frens).

We ended up in Ria apartments's cafe for Nasi lemak. After a walk, we went back to First World (the walk uphill was indeed tiring) to shop around. Surprisingly, there are a few shops having a sale and i would have bought a jacket from Cheetah if i'd brought along enough money (I didn't think i would buy anything at Genting). In the end, we got ourselves a glow-in-the-dark necklace, and souveniors for my brotha and his sistah.

When we finally decided to go home at around 4:35, we bought the return tickets and hurried back to FirstWorld as i forgot to buy something for my grandmother. With a picture of us in my camera, I went to make a keychain for her to bring to England.

I guess the bus left when we were waiting for the key chain. Of course we didn't know about that until we boarded the 5:30pm coach and was scolded for being late. We still managed to find two seats eventhough we were supposed to stand and we slept through the whole journey till we reached Titiwangsa. The LRT came once we reached the station and then the 403 bus came right when we stepped down from the LRT. Lucky, ain't we?

However, our luck ran out when we finished our steamboat dinner and went home. When i took off the necklace that i only got to wear for less than 8 hours, it fell onto the floor with a sickening crash. It shattered into pieces! My heart went down with it, and I hastily scrambled to pick up the pieces. Aih, what a way to waste away 18ringgit.

All in all, it was a happy day trip. At least now i know it's actually quite easy and cost pretty much the same to go to Genting as compared to maybe 1U or Sunway. (Plus i won't get headache and cooked for being under the hot sun for too long!) Nice, ain't it?

ApoloGy

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I never notice this. Today in my parents' office, we discussed about my training program in the departments. They began to lecture me about the way i should behave (don't twist your hair!), act... and talk. They reminded me to be smarter and talk in a manner that i would not seem too dumb nor act too snobbish. Then i suddenly realised that i have always been speaking without really thinking through what i would be saying. For example, complaining about me being too fat or too short in front of others who are also as sensitive to this issue (most gals hate this topic, including me! haha). I guess this makes me seem arrogant to others, without really meaning to. Some of my friends have reminded me about that, ya, i have been trying to do the wait-3-secs-before-u-speak thing, but it's really hard. Maybe i have hurt some of u guys, the way i talk, please don't keep it at heart.
Of course, i would try to do something about that.

Uh-Maze-inG

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I really don't understand this. I actually cut out papers and arrange them. Well, there's a slight difference in the area, but there has to be some illusion somewhere hasn't it? I don't get it...
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It was 6:30 in the evening, and i was driving with my dad sitting upright, clinging to the handrails, and scowling under his breath at my seemingly pathetic driving skills. We were heading towards the Palace of the Golden Horses (PGH), where the dinner would take place.

How my dad got the invitation, i do not know (i couldn't bothered to ask). Both my parents thought it would be "good education" for me, so instead of the usual 'mum and dad going out for dinner and me staying at home with my brother wrecking down the house', they decided to let me go with my dad.

There was supposed to be a talk, so i thought it would be a big event, like the last one i went with my dad, with fashion shows and sorts. But when we finally found the place after walking through a maze in the PGH, i was utterly disappointed to find a small room with only a round table with ten seats. A man walked towards us and shook my dad's hand, then he turned to me, shook mine, and asked who i was. I didn't know how to introduce myself (it wouldn't be appropriate to say, hello i am he xin, would it? i mean, he wouldn't even bothered to remember right?). Luckily my dad came to my rescue. "She my daughter." There. Done.

A few more people arrive, and all started to exchange name cards. Everything was very formal, and i tried to put on my best and smiled to everyone, even though i started to think, what the hell am i doing here, a rebellious teen with a bunch of business people? I started to understand why most rich kids turn rebellious. With all the tension in the air, i couldn't help but act like one
too.

It wasn't until 7:30 that all of them finally arrive, and the man who asked my name started to give his presentation. Halfway through the speech, i finally begun to understand what a fund manager is and why we were there. To cut it short, he was persuading us (actually it's just my dad, and another two business owners, as the others were the fund manager's dealers) to hand over our money to him to "invest" in the stock market.

The food finally came at eight thirty. It was a Chinese restaurant, yet everything came in plates served individually. Appetizer, shark fin soup, oyster, ostrich, prawns, fish and all sorts were served. Frankly, it made me feel like becoming a vegetarian. I mean, i appreciate it as everything was made with extra 'fineness', but i could have enjoyed a Char Koay Teow much more. At least i don't have to eat without talking and making no noise with the cutlery.

I spent most of my time staring blankly at them, nodding once or twice, imagining what they are like at home. I noticed that most of the fund managers and dealers or whatever were rather uneasy, trying to behave in good manner while the other two bosses (which are their potential clients) were being boss-like, ever so skeptical, full of themselves, and shooting many questions to the fund manager. My dad, on the other hand, was rather laid-back. Even the FM paid not much attention to him. I guess he knew than it's a waste of time to talk someone much more experience than him to hand over his assets.

He seem to have more interest in me though. After hearing me saying i wanted to study economics, he took it as a personal interest to dissuade me, saying he was tricked into studying that subject and find it useless.

All in all, it was an extremely uncomfortable dinner, it made my mood go all the way to the floor ( plus the fact that i did very badly in my stupid AS economics exam in the morning), and i hope i would never be the one giving that kind of presentation in the future.